Presentations and Confidence

Who would like to do that? But strangely enough we often do things that actually sabotage our efforts to become confident. we would like to be confident but are you also secretly wishing to kill your own confidence?
Do you try to portray confidence when you actually feel weak and nimble on the inside?
You are not the only one with this problem. There are a lot of people struggling with this problem everyday. Know what happens when you resist something? even a thought? It comes back stronger. Now tell me when you choose to become confident? What is your primary reason? Do you hate being Confident? Do you hate the idea of low confidence? Do you get bad time due to your low confidence~Do you get bad time due to your low confidence}?
You may have some unconscious blocks that stops you from becoming a confident person. Want to find out what these blocks are? You might believe you will never be a confident person, but this belief is not based on fact – it is simply based on your way of looking at things.

What are the common blocks that stop you from being confident.

Don’t Deserve to be confident

Difficlut to fathom but lots of people have such a problem. Consciously you say that you want to be confident yet deep down you think you don’t deserve it because you are not good enough as a person. It’s similar to believing you don’t deserve happiness or success. As long as this block remains, it will be very hard to reach your confidence goal.

You are afraid to be confident

Sometimes people are more afraid of changes they have to face due to success than due to failures. It’s the same with confidence. if you choose to become confident, things are going to change in your life. Many find change to be a scary prospect.

You secretly think confidence is equal to arrogance

Perhaps you have met people who seemed overly confident – so confident in fact that they came across as arrogant and rather obnoxious. You may worry that you will become so confident that you will forget who you really are.
You think certain people are born with a confidence gene and are ‘lucky’

You are afraid of others opinion about your new confident self.

A lot of us place great value on what others think of us. We are often surrounded by other people who low confidence in themselves and they become our mirrors. This often gives us a sense of belonging. Our friends and family probably reinforce that. Sometimes we have to change a few things in our life in order to become more confident and the ones who love us may not like this idea. Sometimes they may feel threatened and you may worry that you will lose some friends.

You think you are too shy to be confident
Surprisingly people thing being shy means you should not be confident. In fact if you are shy getting rid of shyness should be a good reason why you want to become confident